Lady Kat


If you find me here Whispers of Kink and then find me also elsewhere, be sure you message me thru Whispers with the contact section below!


Mature, 6ft tall sensual Professional and lifestyle Domme with a delicious twist that can roll between nurturing and sadistically harsh.


I offer an individualized experience to your specific fetish, needs and comfort level. Yet don't rule out pushing your limits with being able to grow and explore in a safe environment!  It is all about consent!


I thrive on ensuring you are comfortable and feel safe. The free feeling when able to let yourself go and connect with the part of you that you do not let others see or know about. Freedom thru submission. What good are secrets if you can't enjoy them. Quench your thirst and feed your hunger for what you need.

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Whispers is my home and where I book my sessions!

First time sessions are 90 mins. No exceptions. Some time will be used before and after the session for introductions, negotiations, reflection and aftercare. After that initial time, we can book from 1 hour to days. Only you are your own limitation. For my spankies - I offer 30 Min spankings for a Tune Up! This is only available after a full session.


If you request a pre-booking, You will be contacted to begin screening. 

Contact me:

If you complete my contact form, You will be contacted to begin screening. Photo ID required. 

Virtual consults/Sessions/Check ins/Additional aftercare

Consults, Cam, Phone or Messaging. Discreet and private all in the comfort of your own home. Video sessions available via Skype or Discord. 

Personal Domestic Subs:

I have a special place in my heart and domain for true wired subs and slaves. For those that are sincere, looking for servitude, keep busy with tasks that benefit myself and give you purpose! This is a special relationship and they take time to grow just like anything worth while. You will need to prove yourself.

Digital helpers and slaves:  Looking! There is always things you can do for me!

Unable to have a live session but just want to feel useful? Interested in serving and enhancing my life digitally? If you have IT skills, website building familiar with Elementor and good with using excel I just may be able to use you! Send me a message via my contact form and say you applying as a digital helper/slave.

Shall we begin ..........

  • Corporal Punishment

  • Face Sitting

  • Bondage and Restraint

  • Tickle Play

  • Tasks – that serve MY Domain and give you purpose

  • Leg and Boot worshippers

  • Vaping, Gas Mask

  • Giantess

  • Tease and Denial

  • Begging, Whinning etc

  • Chastity / keyholding (virtual locking available, check-ins mandatory!)

  • Belching/Burping

  • Spanking - Even good boys need a spanking


  • Humiliation and degradation- Sensual or Harsh

  • CFNM (Clothes Female Nude Male)

  • Foot Worship – beautifully slender size 11 feet. Give me a pedicure and polish!

  • Sissification, Feminization, Cross and Sissy dressing and training

  • Impact play - Paddle/Cane/Flogger

You may contact me..............

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Legal disclaimer:

I am a professional service provider. Any fees or compensation paid to me are for my time and companionship only. Any actions that take place within our contracted timeframe are a matter of mutual choice between consenting adults. Any scenarios, fantasy or otherwise, contained in this ad are purely that; they do not constitute any form of contractual obligation. I do not engage in any unlawful acts. I reserve the right not to enter into any arrangement with those whom I reasonably believe to be under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or for any other reason at my sole discretion.

Secret Location  in Rochester, NY