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Welcome to Whispers of Kink.  A professional Dominatrix / FemDomm service located in Rochester, NY, a quick drive from Buffalo NY, Syracuse NY and anywhere in Upstate New York.
We are an established house of experienced Dommes, located near the Downtown Rochester area, who provide non-sexual BDSM fantasy fulfillment for both men and women, ages 21 and over. 

Whispers of Kink did not emerge by accident. Being heavily involved with my local dungeon over the years and having a passion for all things BDSM and kink, I dreamed of a place where those seeking to fulfill their fantasies can do so in a safe, private and professional environment. Realizing that there was a lack of services in Upstate and Western New York, I have sought out to make this dream a reality. My goal is to grow a network of skilled, and compassionate Dominatrices to accommodate a wide variety of fetishes from all demographics, gender identities and sexual orientations.
At the House of Whispers, you choose your Dominatrix to fulfill your fantasy role play desires.  Each Dominatrix has the skill, knowledge, and many years of BDSM experience and offer a variety non-sexual BDSM fantasy fulfilment in a safe, sane and consensual environment. You will quickly understand the difference of an experienced lifestyle Domme, compared to an online Domme, or insta Domme who does not practice BDSM in real life.  
Review each profile and contact the Domme that will make your dreams come true. Screening is required.

Experience the power of Female Domination with our services. From sensual domination to intense BDSM, we offer a unique experience that will leave you feeling both empowered and humbled. Our skilled Dominatrixes are here to GIVE not TAKE and will ensure that you not only experience pleasure, but also learn something new.

The House of Whispers located in Rochester New York seeks to create individualized, non-sexual fantasy experiences for those who wish to explore their deepest desires. We place the highest emphasis on privacy and discretion. Discretion is assured and expected!!!  Mutual trust and confidentiality is our passion. Rest assured with Whispers of Kink; YOUR SECRET IS OUR BUSINESS.

Take note: 
The ladies of the House of Whispers DO NOT provide any type of sexual service. Do not ask! As  a Professional Dominatrix, we provide Professional Domination, NOT prostitution. We follow all the laws and rules of our state and county and we expect you to do the same.


Submit to your Mistress and let your fantasy begin!!! 

Madam Electra

Lady Kat


Riley Brat Princess

Monetary donations accepted to help keep our business running. CASH APP $NYMADAME


What is Professional BDSM Domination?


 Female professional dominant ("Pro-domme" or "Dominatrix") is paid to engage in BDSM play with a submissive. Professional dominatrices are not prostitutes, despite the sensual and erotic interactions she has.  An appointment or roleplay is referred to as a "session", and is often conducted in a dedicated professional play space which has been set up with specialist equipment, known as a "dungeon". Sessions may also be conducted remotely by letter or telephone, or in the contemporary era of technological connectivity by email, or online chat. Most, but not all, clients of female professional dominants are men. Male professional dominants also exist, catering predominantly to the gay male market.  (Wikipedia)

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